Open Letter to Christ-Centered Ladies

Open Letter to Christ Centered LadiesShout out to you, ladies with Christ in their hearts. The ones who’ve taken the narrow path, and the ones who wandered then returned. Pressures have come from all sides, yet you’ve let Christ reign within you, leading the way.

To the ones who have chosen to be a light in this dark world. Being kind when it’s difficult, a determined encourager when everyone else has deemed something, or someone, a lost cause. Living selflessly even when society screams at you to do the opposite. Take care of you first, it’s your duty to yourself to be happy before anyone else, they say. You gently reply, I already have Someone taking care of me, my duty now is to spread the joy I’ve been given.

To the ones who were raised in the church and those that took that first nervous step in. Your classmates, peers, culture, friends, colleagues, and sometimes even family pushing you to walk away from what you know in your heart to be true. And yet, you remained steadfast.

To the ones that have achieved great victories, some privately in your heart, and others out in the open for the whole world to see. Though pride tries to creep in, you bow down low and give all the glory to God. Through you, He does wondrous things.

To the ones that have chosen to raise up the women around her instead of trying to rise above them. When you learn, you share your knowledge. When a friend achieves a goal, you don’t envy her, you throw her the biggest party you know how. And when a friend suffers a hardship, you’re the first to come and offer what comfort you can give.

To the prayer warriors, the ones who have done battle for so many. Your prayers have helped more people than you’ll probably ever know. Relentlessly, you offer your words and heart up to the Lord, knowing He will do something great, even if you never see it. Your faith will inspire generations.

To the ones who never give up hope. Your loved ones have all leaned on you for support at some time or another, and you rekindled the flame in their burned-out souls. Speaking words of truth and wisdom, feeding them Life.

To the fighters for what’s right. Fighting the wars inside with prayer and scripture. Fighting wars in the world with love and grace. And fighting to help others come to know the peace and joy that fills your entire being.

Thank you, for being an inspiration and role model for your sisters in Christ.

I want to be one of these women, we all do. Though some of us may not have achieved this yet, just the fact that we are striving to get there means that we are well on our way. When we offer our all up to God, He’ll do the rest.

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Christ-Like Beauty

Living with Christ-like BeautyBeauty is a hot topic in the world of Christian women nowadays. This has stirred up lots of talk (and sometimes strong debate) about modesty. Pants vs. skirts, how much makeup is too much, and shirt necklines are all part of the conversation. But today, I want to set all of that aside and talk about what really makes a woman beautiful.

As I’m sure you’ve heard before, true beauty stems from the heart. We all know that to be true to some extent. Think about those girls you know that everyone thinks are gorgeous but have the worst attitudes. Their bodies may be beautiful, but their hearts sure aren’t.

At some point in your life, you may have met a woman who has so much Jesus in her that she seems to glow with joy. There’s a certain magnetism that she has, people can’t help but want to spend time with her. No matter her looks, she’s seen as beautiful.

What is our obsession with beauty? If you think about it, at the very center of this desire is the want to be liked and loved. We want people to notice us, and then like us enough to want to get closer. We want to be admired and remembered. Sure, being beautiful may get us to that first step, but if your heart isn’t beautiful, the second step will never happen.

So, do you want to be beautiful? Start with the inside. Here are a few qualities that will emanate real beauty:

  1. Kindness. When you treat people kindly (sometimes that’s a rare quality in today’s world) they notice that you’re different in a good way. The trick to being truly kind is maintaining that loving-kindness even when someone doesn’t deserve it. A stranger is being rude? Do something nice for them to make their day easier. Sure, it may be super hard to do, but that person and anyone who was watching will remember you.

  2. Courage. A woman who is not ruled by fear is beautiful indeed. Courageous women often become role models. This isn’t to say that Quote bout true beautyyou’re not beautiful if you become scared. It’s what you do with that fear that makes the difference. The Bible tells us over and over not to be afraid. God has our backs! When we believe that, we become what I like to call warrior women.

  3. Humility. A humble woman gives the glory to God. She knows she doesn’t have great achievements in her own power. Have you ever met a prideful person that you admired? It’s very hard to enjoy someone’s presence when they think they’re the greatest thing since sliced bread. Humble people are like finding an oasis in the desert.

Living out these qualities can be so difficult in today’s culture. We’re encouraged to think of ourselves before anyone else, boast about what we can do, and constantly have scary news thrown in our faces. Being kind, courageous, and humble will take a lot of work. With God’s help, we can most certainly achieve it.

As a woman in my early 20’s, this all goes against everything society tells me to be. But I’ve decided I want to be truly beautiful.

I encourage you to pursue true beauty as well! Encourage all of the women in your life to focus on beauty of the heart. Comment below other qualities that make the daughters of God beautiful!

P.S.  If you want to do some reading in the Bible about the subject, read Proverbs 31 for sure!